Friday, 16 December 2022

Tenderness in thoughts


With so many things coming back in style, I can't wait until morals, respect and intelligence become a trend again. 
Denzel Washington

                                 
           
 
 (For Representation Purpose: Crane Origami)         


On November 23, 2022, something unprecedented happened in the locker room at Khalifa International Stadium, Qatar during the FIFA World Cup. Japanese team, till then ranking 24th, had just clinched a historic victory against four times champion, Germany. Instead of celebrating it with Champagne as is de rigeur, the winners did something else. They impeccably cleaned up the changing room and then kept crane origami to express gratitude and spirit for soccer games. Their fans too cleaned up the stadium. FIFA thanked the Japanese team. 
When  FIFA shared this on its Twitter handle with a picture of crane origami, it was flooded with appreciations. There were some queries too on the reason behind this behaviour. One Japanese twitted the reason explaining that  kids were taught cleanliness from elementary school.  They clean their classrooms. 
Thus, 'when leaving a place, leave it cleaner than what it was when you came' - this attitude/outlook is ingrained in their system. 

Imagine this happening in some Indian schools. Either the authorities will lack the courage/wisdom to prompt the kids to clean up and/or some parents will create a chaos. Hence, when such things are not taught at the elementary level,  the dirt piles up in landfills, roads and at times, even in trains. 

In fact, not just cleanliness, Japanese people are known for being extremely polite and punctual. I should know. I visited the country over a decade ago.  
 
Japan, among the countries I have visited, is the most 'developed' nation. Why? Because, whomsoever, I interacted with, whether it is someone amidst the self-absorbed animated  crowd on a Thursday evening celebrating Octoberfest at the oldest Lion Beer Hall, in glamorous Ginza, lined with swanky stores;  the lanky fellow passionately playing a violin on the street outside; a group of all-women senior citizens raising a toast at the strike of midnight at a cosy sushi bar; the comparatively loud audience at the Kabuki-za theatre; the silent and disciplined commuters inside Shinkansen (bullet train) from Tokyo to Kyoto or in the bus ride to the Yakult plant near Mt. Fuji or inside Tokyo Tower or down an alley in Osaka...wherever I walked, I only met graciousness. Not once did I hear a raised voice even when I mistakenly crossed a road as the traffic light turned red! 
I am told then that this uniform cordiality of the citizens is primarily thanks to its education system. 

In Japanese schools, till fourth grade, there is no examination. The kids are made to learn their manners in the initial three years. They are made to learn the importance of being gentle and kind, compassionate and empathetic to all life forms, be it humans, birds, animals or trees. Constant harping on human qualities at an impressionistic age goes a long way in creating an affable community for an obliging world.

Well, my dear readers, do you feel manners maketh man? I do believe.  
Pl share your thoughts on this. 
The more, the merrier.

Ciao for now!! 

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Wednesday, 19 October 2022

The Wisdom of History

Peanuts: I wonder what teachers make?

          Peppermint Patty: They make a difference!                                      

                                           Charles M. Schulz



In my college days, History was one of my favourite subjects and still is. When, recently, I attended an online session on select historical figures by Anindya Mukerji, 56, I was instantly drawn into his web of panoramic knowledge. A raconteur with a difference, he gives your mind a real jog with his hard-hitting facts. He affirms that History too is used in a potent manner to make us colonies once ruled by the Whites feel inconsequential. Hence, if we want to find ourselves, we first need to de-colonize our own minds, goes his deep revelation.

His pointers are real provocateurs that prompt you to contemplate. Here are some of his gems: Countries that gained independence in the 1930’s–50’s overwhelmingly turned totalitarian or suffered military rule, but not India. Why? Why is Rajasthan, which never suffered the long depredations of the British (as Bihar), in a cluster of backward BIMARU states? How did a handful from a backward, windy isle come to lord over the vast and far more advanced Indian sub-continent? Or speaking more globally, the million-dollar question: If attending school is education, how did millions from a country with high literacy stand aside, remain silent or actively collaborate in the heinous actions of the Third Reich?

 When Anindya Mukerji is talking, you can never be bored. He makes History sound like a Sherlock Holmes mystery! A raconteur par excellence, he conjures up dramatic images, piques the interest of his audience with little-known facts, makes them think by asking pertinent questions and prompts them into spaces hitherto undefined to them. Often, the lesser or little-known facts give better perspective to a subject. As he rightly contends, "evidence-based History is a great teacher, giving us far superior perspectives, enabling wiser and much more informed choices and radically reducing the possibility of repeating mistakes". Note : anybody can join his sessions.

 Now, to the question: Who is Anindya Mukerji? I have known  him for over two decades since the time he was a high-profile corporate executive, living in upscale South Mumbai.

 Raised in the steel city of Burnpur, West Bengal, his academic track sports a gallery of acclaimed institutions: IIM, IIT, St. Xavier's and St. Patrick’s (along with an award of the prestigious National Talent Search Scholarship immediately after school). Inspired by Mark Twain, he maintains “I never let school either interfere with or define the outer boundaries of my attempts at education”. But, thankfully, he is not just into academics. From cooking to scuba diving, reading, skiing, singing, travelling...
Thanks, to his varied interests, exposures (meeting at least thousand new people every year) and  consequent curated experiences, his profile of a founder-teacher only gets better.

Yes! Despite a comfortable life in Mumbai, he left his job, relocated to Pune and started a socially- responsible endeavour, aptly named The Ekalavya Initiative. "Through its ‘Bindaas Bol’ and ‘Pagaar Bhi. Padhai Bhi’ developmental programmes delivered across 137 locations spread over 13 states of India seeks to enable tens of  thousands of orphaned girls, single mothers as also the resource-challenged from deep rural or urban slums achieve ‘escape velocity’: permanently exit their erstwhile stations, through quality career commencement with reputed firms,  options which otherwise are available to only the affluent", he maintains.

                                                         

                                          


                         Anindya Mukerji at the National War Memorial, Southern Command,                                Pune, India, made  solely with contributions by civilian citizens and 
is the only one of its kind in South Asia. 



   As I, Sudeshna Chatterjee, take this online interview, the encyclopaedic knowledge and riveting replies of Anindya Mukerji light up those muted corners of History hitherto hidden with cobwebs of negligence for several decades and at times, deliberately camouflaged with convenient contents by the unscrupulous powerbrokers.



Q and A


How relevant is history as a subject?
 

Let me start with a story.

 In 2013, my flight from Cairo to Aswan had, to my surprise, taken fully an hour and twenty minutes. Neither is at the extremities of Al Misr (Egypt) - the 876 km distance between the two being less than two-thirds of the shortest route from Alexandria in the extreme north to Abu Simbel in the deep south.

Africa, in my mind, had always been the same size as the British Isles, since each had been devoted exactly the same one page in atlases published by Oxford; Egypt, only a tiny fraction of the size of England. The said atlases had also imprinted in mind the impression Edinburgh was light years away from London, while in reality they are only 630 km apart: less than half the length of Egypt.

European countries, much smaller than the nations they colonized, have over the past three centuries deployed many insidious means to make millions on multiple continents feel eternally inferior. Cartographically diminishing us was one of them, resulting in us: the erstwhile colonized, considering ourselves, as well as countries previously colonized by the White Man, dismissively, as being insignificant and irrelevant.

Maps were weaponized, yes, but History too was used in a potent manner to make us feel inconsequential. Only events and personalities from the Occident were considered ‘History’ despite the Khmer Empire being by far larger than its celebrated contemporary Byzantine Empire, ‘History’ books don’t mention it.

 I do subscribe to the oft-cited reasons for the relevance of History as a subject, especially the maxim ‘Those who do not learn from History are condemned to repeat it’. As Albert Einstein said, "Two things are infinite : the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the universe". History provides the opportunity to learn from a treasure-trove of others’ stupidities.

History also provides innumerable instances from across the ages to recognize true wisdom viz. chasing only hard power ensures neither security nor longevity, as Aurangzeb realized too late, nor lead to wide appeal – note the near-absence of Sinic cultures across SE Asia while Indic influence flourishes from Bagan (Myanmar) to the Champa kingdom (Vietnam) and finally, the enormous price to be paid for hubris, as in the wiping out of the glorious Vijayanagar kingdom because of the mindless arrogance of Krishna Raya.

 
However, I am an avid reader of History for a host of additional reasons:

To try find answers to questions: While many nations that gained independence in the 1930’s–50’s subsequently suffered totalitarian or military rule, why did India not do so? Why is Rajasthan, which never suffered at the hands of the British as Bihar, in the cluster of backward BIMARU states? How could millions from a country with high literacy rates actively collaborate with the despicable Third Reich?’

 For often delightful answers from our past to the foods we consume today: the manner of processing of grains and spices by the residents of Dholavira or Rakhigarhi 4,000 years ago to the impact of intense trading contact with the world resulting in the mind-boggling variety of Bengali cuisine –‘sambals’ and ‘malai curries’ to the use of cottage cheese in sweets.

 To be able to call out ‘fake news’ – highly motivated versions of events, such as the manufactured one of the Battle of Talikota in 1565 with Vijayanagara being the last bastion of Hindus, holding out valiantly against marauding Muslims (Robert Sewell, 1900) or a recent video on social media that breathlessly peddles the fiction that a certain King from a medieval South Indian dynasty was ‘the greatest emperor, ever…….Ruling over Malaysia, Thailand, Singapore, Cambodia and Indonesia’. 

 For practical uses on a day-to-day basis : being able to trace back the full universe of causative factors behind current events. From Stalin’s actions in the 40’s and Russia’s ongoing invasion of Ukraine, to recognizing truly worthwhile projections - China’s likely actions because its long-standing civilizational drivers, and analogous situations - the rise today of world-class Indian track and field talent to that in the US 90 years ago.

 But for me, an Indian, the biggest motivation is that ‘History’ as written by the West has, till rather recently, been a travesty of the rich. Globally inter-connected tapestry that the story truly is, it being reduced to pointless details of endless European battles, while interesting accounts of the trading connections of Mapungubwe or the Great Zimbabwe in Africa with places as far away as India, China and Egypt are ignored.

 Muted mention of extraordinary, millennia-old edifices (the exquisite carvings on the 9th-century Banteay Srei in Kampuchea) and en passant passages on remarkable personalities (Sundiata Keita, founder of the massive Mali Empire or his wealthier-than-Augustus Caesar nephew Mansa Musa - the one who established Timbuktu as a great center of learning), while waxing eloquent on obscure knights and their ‘great exploits’.

Outright racist versions (Henri Mouhot ‘discovering’ Angkor Wat in 1860) being solemnly passed off as ‘History’ combined with deeply divisive accounts designed to enable the White Man rule at will viz. the ‘good’ British ‘liberating the helpless Hindus of India’ from oppressive Muslim rule by ‘gifting’ them the kingdom of Mysore with a picked-out-of-obscurity Krishnaraja Wodeyar III in 1799 at its head.

 As Chinua Achebe said, unless told by the lion, the tale of the hunt will always glorify the hunter. So, to go past the slanted, self-serving accounts of the occupying ‘hunters’, I read evidence-based History, written by a growing tribe of brilliant young historians from the East. To discover a grand universe of the many ignored till date in ‘History’, as also to evict the Occidental squatters of the real estate of my mind.

For to truly find myself, I first need to de-colonize it.

 
Which parts of History, National and the World, interest you the most? Why?


The areas of special interest to me are –

1.      India from 1707 (death of Aurangzeb) till 1947, especially 1875 onwards till India achieved Independence and the influence of events in different parts of the world on this period.

2.      The history of medieval Deccan ( the area South of the Narmada ), and

3.      Accounts of travellers to India, especially the Europeans in the medieval period.

 A.     I find many things fascinating about this period –

 a.       How dynasties or regimes, however strong they are, will inevitably collapse and being able to spot the early signs of their impending decay and often, sudden implosion.

b.      How a far less developed set of much smaller nations came to lord over vast tracts of land, overthrowing much older and unfathomably richer empires.

c.       The manner in which the world shrunk in an accelerating manner post the 1880s because of a series of inventions and how as a result, events across the world entered our consciousness and informed our actions, leading to independence.

d.      The emergence of a hallowed gallery of incredibly far-sighted women and men : from Maharani Chimnabai, Savitribai Phule and Kamladevi Chattopadhyay to Joseph ‘Kaka’ Baptista (associate and confidante of Tilak), Chamarajendra Wodeyar X along with CV Rungacharlu (the far-ahead-of-his-times Dewan), Vithal Ramji Shinde and Dewan T Madhava Rao, with truly outstanding leadership qualities, because of whom we have the country that is India today standing tall 75 years later, while even an erudite Dewan of a celebrated princely state was of the opinion that the nation would not last more than two years.

 B.     For the simple reason that Indian historians had considered the account of dynasties in Delhi to be the history of India and, till recently, had glancing acquaintance with the Chalukyas, Rashtrakutas, Yadavas, Kakatiyas, Hoysalas, Bahamanis – empires that have made extraordinary contributions in multiple fields : architecture, literature and linguistics to name but three.

 I live in the hope there will be more extraordinary historians of the class of Radhakrishna Choudhary with his work on the history of Mithilanchal, so that one gets worthwhile works on the history of the North-East, pre-medieval Bengal (including current day Bangladesh) and Burma (Myanmar). 

 C.     Medieval India accounted for about 25% of the world’s GDP and Bengal for more than 40% of this: effectively, more than 10% of world GDP.

 Pliny the Elder, in the 1st century CE, had complained of India being ‘the sink of the world’s gold’. The country had been both the seat of a long-standing civilization as also the source of prized manufactures and commodities - the wealth accreting out of gold sent back to pay for these goods exported to far-off lands both by maritime routes as well as overland.

 By the mid-1300’s however, the riches enjoyed by the masses and the opulence of its cities had risen to such a level that those who visited this land were incredulous at the sights.

 To me imagining life in this period by reading these accounts of visitors, especially from Europe, who talk of immeasurable wealth and architectural marvels as also the contrast they pose against the reality of India that I grew up in 50 years ago is something I find engrossing.

 
Name historical figures and events that struck you the most? Why?

 
Three, off the top of my head, are –

 1.      Sayaji Rao Gaekwad of Baroda (as very much his second wife, Maharani Chimnabai):

 a.      For a shepherd boy, picked out of an obscure village near Nashik and installed on the throne at no notice, to rise to become one of the most far-sighted visionaries, ever, of this land.

 His views on the caste system or the need for democracy and the will of the masses to replace the ‘constellation of Princes’ was articulated by him more than a 100 years ago.

 "Men are good and bad according to their virtues and capacities, not parentage. Our country’s prosperity is greatly hindered by the institution of caste. Social reforms are more important than political rights. The system which divided us into innumerable castes is a whole issue of injustice, splitting men equal by nature into divisions high and low, based on an accident of birth" (1893).

 "The first thing you'll have to do when the English are gone is to get rid of all these rubbishy (Princely) states. There'll never be an Indian nation until this so-called Princely order disappears. Its disappearance will be the best thing that can happen to India - the best possible thing" (1908).

 b.      For the wide number of areas he acted on and the long-lasting impact of these : from founding the Bank of Baroda to textile mills to irrigation canals to educational institutions.

 c.       His work on social areas : free education for all ( per capita expenditure in the state of Baroda was 50-times that of British-ruled India ), standing up against child marriage, standing up for women’s education. I could go on and on...

 d.      His nationalism, rising above parochial considerations : ethnic or other narrow identities, and his refusal to bow to the King Emperor at the Delhi Durbar of 1911.

 As Sultan Mahomed Shah (Aga Khan III) said of him, “For Sayajirao, India always came first”. This at a time when divisive pulls and tendencies were widespread and the concept of India as ‘nation’ was still in its nascent stages in the minds of millions.

 2.      Dadabhai Naoroji

 "Whether I am a Hindu, a Muslim, a Parsi or of any other creed, I am above all, an Indian". That was the ‘Grand Old Man of India’ and a seminal foundation-layer of India speaking in 1893.

 One revered by millions, regardless of background. Feted by Muslim Qazis, Hindu Priests and Sikh Granthis at the Golden Temple alike, one who as much moved half a million people to turn out on the streets of Mumbai in protest as mill workers in Ahmedabad or labourers on the streets of Lahore.

 His inclusivity, nationalism, selflessness, being the first voice to bring up the drain of wealth from India to England, contributions as a Dewan of Baroda, social reforms amongst Parsis, founder of the first Indian company in England, mentorship of Baptista, Tilak, Gokhale and MK Gandhi, contributing to the rise in popularity of Raja Ravi Varma  – I could go on endlessly...

 We Indians would do ourselves a favour by trying to understand better how much of where we stand today is because of the contributions and legacy of Sayaji Rao Gaekwad and Dadabhai Naoroji.

 However, there is another reason why this extraordinary gentlemen is an icon I think of dearly.

 India to me is the non-xenophobic, natural homeland to the world, welcoming, over the ages, all, from every corner of this earth, and making them part of our own.

 I see this when I walk down the streets of Calcutta past an ‘Armenian College’ or the ‘Chinese’ fishing nets along the coast near Kochi, read of the 5,000-odd  Polish Jews being provided a safe haven in Jamnagar during World War II or see ‘dhansak’ being eagerly devoured by gourmets.

 This making our own refuge-seekers, of caring for the invisible and unquestioningly making all an inalienable part of our identity as a nation is to me at the root of the phenomenon : Dadabhai Naoroji.

 Centuries ago, the Zoroastrians came to India fleeing from persecution. A millennium later, one from amongst the very same, once fear-fraught people – one that now considered India its own motherland, had yielded up from amongst them this powerhouse – one who kick-started the galvanizing of de-humanized millions into evicting the rapacious, illegitimate occupiers.

And in that story lies the greater unspoken one – of the unique magic of a civilization named India.

 3.      Ibrahim Adil Shah II ( known as Jagatguru Badshah of Vidyanagri - current day Bijapur)

 One of the reasons India captured the imagination of the world, as also achieved to heights in multiple fields, is its syncretic culture : welcoming one and all and making them an integral part of ourselves. For me, Ibrahim Adil Shah II who called Saraswati his Mother and Ganapati his Father, shows what heights can be achieved to out of true syncretism. In addition to his contributions to building (including temples), art, poetry, literature and music, accounts of travellers speak glowingly of his times.

 Events : 

 a.       Battle of Adwa (1896), where the Ethiopian army defeated the invading Italian army

b.      Russo – Japanese War (1904 – 05), where the Russians were routed by the Japanese

c.       The victory of Mohun Bagan over East Yorkshire Regiment in the IFA Shield finals (1911)

d.      The ouster of Tsar Nicholas II as a consequence of the First Russian Revolution (1905)

 The first three brought home the message that the White Man could be defeated.

 The news of the fall of the mighty Tsar travelled to all corners of the earth. For the masses, it meant someone considered powerful beyond measure could be brought down by the common man - a never before phenomenon. Even the Bhils of Mewar made this event part of their battle cry in their rebellion against the redoubtable Fateh Singh, Maharana of Mewar.

 Each of the above provided serious impetus, at a mass level, to the till-then heretical thought that the White Man could be thrown out from India.

 
What is the difference between history and mythology? Do they complement each other?

 
History  : ( should be, if not ideologically driven) evidence-based accounts of events and personalities

Mythology : stories / fabrications / fiction / urban legends

There are of course instances when historical figures have modelled themselves on mythical figures or on mythological narratives. There are a host of negative examples of consequences - Aryan supremacy  and Aryan purity come to mind immediately. Citing ‘Robin Hood’ as an inspiration for looting the helpless is another. There might possibly be examples of positive actions too. Did Harishchandra model himself on Lord Rama? Bhumibol Adulyadej, the highly respected King of Siam, actively did.    

 Between faith and logic, which gets precedence in historical events : local, national and world?
 
Wars have defined the shaping of geographies and destinies of men for a great part of human history. While faith has been cited as the reason to start many of them, I would posit that this has been used as an excuse - the ostensible cause - in a lot of cases to provide a moralistic cover for indefensible acts. While the real cause would have been greed for money or lust for power or greater lands or to project power, faith would have been the publicly cited reason for establishing justness of the cause.

 I find it difficult to believe that even the most blood-thirsty, revenge-seeking general or ruler would, at a personal level, be anything less than driven by cold logic, that they’d be unaware of the terrible costs of war and the toll they take. Ashoka Maurya would have been completely in his senses before deciding to ride on Kalinga. Or for that matter, Adolf  Hitler while sending those who swear by the Talmud to the gas chambers.

 Exceptions that immediately spring to mind : the Crusades (though I am not sure data will not surface in the future that shows it is not faith that truly underlay these Quixotic transcontinental forays) as also Saloth Sar (Pol Pot) and his inflicting unspeakable atrocities on his own countrymen in Kampuchea.

 

Your favorite historian? Why?
 
Possibly, William Dalrymple. Read his latest work ‘The Anarchy’. It is ‘un-put-down-able’, a riveting read.






This is how history needs to be narrated – a canvas, grand in scope, connecting events from very different parts of the globe, thereby showing their interplay and for all these hitherto disjointed pieces to become a cogent whole, stories that come to life because of a detailing out of events with their unpredictable twists and turns like a suspense-ridden thriller, brought to light because of thorough research, compelling us to read on further, passages that pull us in, with our getting fully involved with the personae involved : travelling into their worlds, sighing at the follies we can see but invisible to them, anger at their depredations and, at times, exhilaration at their successes.

 I consider Anirudh Kanisetti too to be part of this tribe as also Ramachandra Guha of the timeless tomes’ fame.
And arguably, Amitav Ghosh, because of the meticulous research into historical events that underlie his works, including the rather recent ‘ The Nutmeg’s Curse’.

 
How can history prepare youth to be a better generation?

Youth: more than 50% of the Indian populace, can have a huge bearing on public discourse as also the choice of representatives in our democracy. The long years they have ahead require them to have a greater stake in the policies adopted by such representatives. History can enable superior choices.

 Travellers to the Vijayanagar kingdom from abroad used to be dazzled by its riches as also the scale of its cities, Hampi in particular. Given the rocky terrain, patchy rainfall and poor soils of a large part of the territories it controlled, how did this empire accumulate so much wealth?

The answer : learning from the radical transformation of the Deccan by the Chalukyas (of Vatapi, Lata, Kalyana) and the Rashtrakutas through vigorous encouragement of wide trading networks – Swahili coast to Guangzhou, besides actively attracting talent from varied parts of the globe.

Empirical evidence from History shows closing doors and looking inwards guarantees penury. Entrepots and empires, from across the globe as also the ages, have lifted millions out of misery by choosing openness: ‘plugging in’ through global trade, as also drawing in talent of all denominations, regardless of background.

Youth could learn this as a key lesson from History and to make this an active factor in their choice of representatives and support for policies. This is important at a mass level for India at this juncture.

 

How history can be taught in the classroom today?

 Amol lived in the cluster of unauthorized shanties in Pune, just outside of the complex I reside in.
With an alcoholic father, who worked on construction sites, school meant perfunctory attendance in an institution run by the Municipal Corporation. Amol found neither interest nor utility in pursuing studies.
When he was in Class VIII, their regular History teacher took seriously ill. The school asked their instructor for Physical Training to step in.
In all his years of schooling, the only thing Amol absolutely loved were the lessons that this makeshift History teacher delivered : epochal events from history narrated by him as riveting stories that flowed into each other, with dramatic use of voice and movement, evoking vivid images, inscribing indelible memories. Amol eagerly waited for his History classes, while all the other subjects bored him to death.
Amol had attended school more than two decades ago, when there was no internet, no videos of historical events on You Tube, no projector or computer with audio speakers in his classroom.
Yet, an instructor of Physical Training, with no prior background in teaching History and with no available technology-enabled teaching aids had made the subject come alive to such an extent, that Amol, who had no interest in any subject at any point of time in school, can even today repeat from memory almost every lesson delivered by this incredible teacher. 

As Dalrymple and a host of other historians have done, this teacher too had made a supposedly dry subject like History become what it truly is : a suspense-ridden thriller.

 



#Mark Twain#Chinua Achebe#Albert Einstein#Adolf Hitler#William Dalrymple# The Anarchy#Amitav Ghosh#The Nutmeg's Curse #Sayaji Rao Gaekwad of Baroda#Dadabhai Naoroji# Ibrahim Adil Shah II#Anindya Mukerji#Sudeshna Chatterjee


 

Monday, 17 October 2022

The Scent of Pujo

The Scent of Pujo

Creativity is a wild mind and a disciplined eye- Dorothy Parker

Hi, everybody. I am back as promised with a better frequency. Thank you Suhasini and Tinni for your thoughtful comments on my earlier post urging all to be green-conscious. Hope, more would join the chorus.

                                                Durga Pujo: A festival of emotions  

Now that Durga Puja is just over, I step back into my mindspace of mirth that rolls down to few decades which still fills up my present with nostalgic overtures. 

Being a Bengali, Durga Pujo is intrinsic to my system since my pinafore days. Faith and devotion were unpretentious amidst variety of free lunch for three consecutive days for people living in and around a particular pujo pandal (pavilion) in Kolkata ( then Calcutta). Heaps of delicious khichuri ( rice and lentil spread with big chunks of potatoes), labra (a mix of vegetables), luchi (deep-fried flatbread), chholar dal (split bengal gram pulses),  beguni ( crispy eggplant fritters, sprinkled with rock salt), paneer curry,  fish curry ( Rohu/Hilsa), tomato and dates sweet chutney, mishti doi (sweet yoghurt), chaler payesh (rice pudding), roshogolla, fresh from the bubbling cauldron of syrup... Gluttons and gourmands became allies as they rushed to claim their seats. The menu was never repeated on those three days ( 7th, 8th and 9th days of Navratri). 

 We were immersed in the ambience flavoured with the fragrance of flowers, fruits, sweets, incense sticks and burners, spiced up with the alluring aroma of street foods and pulsating with the foot-tapping sounds of dhak ( large drum played with two thin sticks), dhol (double- sided barrel drum) and kasor ghanta (a percussion instrument consisting of a brass plate and a drum stick). Those three days, amidst food, fashion and ethnic events,  we were hardly at home and our parents would not browbeat on that.  We would hop pavilions (mind-blowing artwork and innovative lightings), savour different foods and attend cultural soirees. And of course, there would be digressive conversation with puns intended which got a native moniker called 'adda' over cups of piping hot tea with veg/ non- veg platters. Celebrated singers then and even now release their much-awaited albums/singles in Bengali during this time. Add to it, the much-anticipated movie releases in Bengali and most importantly special editions of different Bengali magazines are grabbed by people across the strata.
I feel happy  that 'Durga puja in Kolkata' now gets an intangible cultural heritage of humanity tag by UNESCO.

One look at Maa Durga, Her beautiful and powerful eyes (Trinayani) and the hand-crafted sholar topor (headgear) always mesmerises me. For several years now, residing in a different city, that connection is still vibrant. For three days, our community kitchen welcomes everyone. This is what, I feel, makes the Durga Pujo, so distinct, in serving free and fresh vegetarian lunch, complete with dessert to anyone for three consecutive days.  Of course, the exemplary, mostly hand-crafted  artwork seen in several pandals is the other hallmark of this festival. The white saree with broad red border, red bindi, sindoor displayed prominently on the forehead,  white and red bangles (shakha-pola)  is the signature attire of a Bengali married woman mostly seen on the tenth day as part of the 'sindoor khela' is another colourful tradition that is still respected. 

Everytime, I look at Maa Durga,  I am at peace and full of hope, happiness and mirth. Is this called faith, I don't know. But, I do look forward to Her arrival and listen to Mahalaya programmes (organised one day before Navratri consisting of hymns in Sanskrit and a genre of Bengali songs called Agomoni songs celebrating the arrival of the Goddess as daughter of the household). It is spellbinding when you listen to the hymns and songs at the call of dawn. For decades, we were glued to our little Murphy radio. These days, smartphones serve the purpose. Thankfully,  now even AIR (All India Radio) is so clear on my smartphone!! Some of the prominent television channels also feature programmes in Bengali to celebrate the occasion.

Our pujo starts from Shasthi, i.e., the 6th day of Navratri. We never fail to visit the pandal and offer obeisance to Maa in new clothes. 

Shubho Sharodiya🙏❤️🙏

#Maa Durga# Navratri #UNESCODurgapujaheritage #khichuri#Kolkata #roshogolla

Thursday, 21 July 2022

Cherish Or Perish


Two years back, the Barcelona opera house reopened with a concert exclusively for potted plants! How thoughtfully beautiful!! Why can't we think of such initiatives that starts with paying an ode to nature? Take our sapling distribution. Does anyone care of their survival rate?  


 “Just living is not enough" said the butterfly, "one must have sunshine, freedom and a little flower". - Hans Christian Andersen, The Complete Fairy Tales




                                                       

Suhasini Ahluwalia Mehta

Apologies, after a prolonged break, I am back. Hopefully, the frequencies of my write-ups will be better henceforth. Thank you Suhasini Ahluwalia Mehta for giving me such an honest interview. You read like an open book and in the process, am sure, inspired many with your mind and its impressions.

 I am grateful to all readers for loving and more importantly writing back to express their joy and appreciation. Gratitude! 

"Sudeshna you’ve captured the effervescent beauty of Suhasini Mehta Ahluwalia..I always feel it’s the little things that matter and the little things that add up". This was a comment made by one of our esteemed readers, Kavita. This is so true of Suhasini. Every small thing that she has initiated has ignited a catalytic chain of positive energy. I always feel that she exudes a rare insight and truly brings her own sunshine in all that she does.

I particularly take back the above-mentioned comment by Kavita. Yes, it is the little things that matter and the little things that add up.. For, it is here, that, we can do our bit to make not just a purposeful and thus a happy life as much for ourselves as for others. Since last month was predominantly the green month, what with world environment day, world ocean day and world wind day huddling together, I would like to take this opportunity of reminding  my readers of our responsibilities (part of our fundamental duties as enshrined in the Constitution of India) in preserving our natural environment. So that every month can turn green with fresh titles!! What say?

While in June, there were some regular gathering of celebrities and ministers for distributing saplings, and some warnings by way of some articles about the horror of climate change. But either way, does it really serve our purpose of replenishing the fast disappearing greens? By that logic, are we really attentive to our fundamental duties the way we perspire over fundamental rights?


                     Pull of Pollution
       Photo courtesy: Mukesh Parpiani 

I for one feel, fundamental rights have always been arresting our attentions more than it is needed. We as Indians have always been asking for things rather than doing our bits too. With changing times, we look for making quick bucks and indulge in consumerist lifestyle, often turning a Nelson's eye to all the marauding of nature happening at our backyards!Till we alter perspectives and consequent habits, changes are insignificant. 

If you are still clueless to lifestyle changes that can impact our natural reserve, take a look.  

 Somewhere, I read, no less than a litre of water is wasted because of a leakage of a faucet. Yet, it is neither expensive, nor difficult to fix it, whether it is faulty faucets or broken pipes. Every time you flush, gallons of water gets used up. At least use recycled water instead of fresh water. Similarly, don't insist for fresh water when washing cars. To cherish this life-giving resource, we need to conserve it. Our country is one among the luckiest to be nurtured by so many water bodies. But like the air, it is equally if not more polluted. Again, not expensive, but simple measures can turn the clock around. Like stop using single use plastic bags. And let's not wait for government moves on these matters.                                    

Single use plastics are lethal. I remember a line in the Hindi film, Mission Mangal, even iron gets rust and thus decay, but not plastic. They don't perish and keep polluting our water bodies so much that now the species dwelling there are getting affected and thus endangered. Yes, initially, it could be a problem. But, if you are determined to make a habit to carry a cloth bag and metal cutleries like spoon, fork and a straw ( their plastic replacements are seen in many eating joints), every time you step out, then our country, will soon become a magical place to live in - cleaner and greener. Even when you are going to office, carry a cloth bag and the cutleries, in your vanity bag. Replace a cosmetic with a cutlery if space is limited. If you want to be more purposeful, be like Delhi's Dr Ruby Makhija. The good doctor distributes cloth bags to vendors to be given to customers at a price of Rs 20 each. They will be redeemed when they return the bag. Similarly, take water as much you could drink, don't give a full glass to a guest either. Rather than an indulgent shower, use a bucket at least some days in a week to start with. Turn off the tap while brushing, shaving etc. Stop or minimise usage of thermocols, tissue papers and papers. 

You draw your own list and make it your resolution. Make your lifestyle more environment-responsible and not just environment-friendly. When you are responsible, you are accountable. 

You are accountable when you value something or someone. There is a beautiful clip from the hindi serial Anupama where the protagonist is urging parents to take their children to the villages so that they can see how wheat, paddy etc are grown, touch it and smell it. In the process, they will feel empathetic enough as not to waste or throw away end products like chapatis.  

Smell the roses, cherish the sunlight, lap up the water, hug a tree, organise a picnic, take a walk in the local park/garden/forest etc. In short, embrace nature.

Suhasini hugging a mango tree


 Two years back, on June 24, 2020, the Barcelona opera house reopened with concert exclusively for potted plants! How thoughtfully beautiful!! Why can't we think of such initiatives?

 Please do share your thoughts on this and any initiative you feel is a perfect ode to nature. 

Hope that our minds and our world become greener. Amen.


 #Constitution of India# Sudeshna Chatterjee# Barcelona opear house# Nature# Butterfly# Suhasini Ahluwalia Mehta# Dr Ruby Makhija# Mission Mangal#  Anupama#

Sunday, 3 October 2021

Mental Floss

 

Life is a journey.... .Just remain true to yourself...And it always pans out- Saba Ali Khan Pataudi


                                                                              
                                                                               Suhasini Ahluwalia Mehta   


How many people think like her? 

I mean if you go through her impressions, you will be overwhelmed with an explosion of emotions and will be compelled to think afresh. Sample a gem from her:  When you are gifting someone, you are actually sharing the perks you get of being privileged. And the flip side is that privilege has given me the strength to manage prejudice and difficult times.  For example, during the pandemic, stretching over a year now,  keeping a journal has been the best balm I could get for myself. It has become a powerful influencer in the way my mind now responds to events and remarks.That is because, it helped me struck a great relationship with myself. More than anyone else, you live with yourself through most part of your life. So, how compatible are you with yourself influences your contentment quotient.  Yes, one of the best gifts of journaling is that you start a friendship with someone you are perhaps most harsh and indulgent about. 

Meet multi-talented stunner, Suhasini Ahluwalia Mehta.

She is based out of Navi Mumbai, Maharashtra, India. She had the privilege of working with visionaries like media personality Pritish Nandy. Consequently, among other interesting work under his tutelage, she was instrumental in setting up the first cyber cafe in India at Leela Kempinski, Mumbai in the early nineties.She is the founder of 17 years old Stellant Communications Pvt Ltd, a boutique Public Relations firm that works with venture capitalists and start-ups.  To me, Sudeshna Chatterjee, her halo is somewhere else though, reflected in our freewheeling conversations which only get better and hence linger on with time. What I like about her the most is her curiosity to learn or do something new. Research says learning new things is a great tonic for your brain health and also keeps you in good humour. In the last eighteen months due to serial lockdowns, she started and continued with some new activities. She started keeping a diary.  She has been regularly giving free Pranic healing on asking. She has been into acrylic painting as well since the last six months. Wait! She is an amateur nature photographer and a drummer as well. Married for almost two decades now, she with her supportive husband are a DINK couple. She is 51 now, and looks unbelievably stunning for her age. Just look at her pictures!!But to me, Sudeshna Chatterjee, her looks are attractive because of her grey cells!!She is intelligent, witty, and a quick learner. It is her  pattern of thoughts that I find so enchanting and energetic. My favourite quote by her: I always keep myself busy. Some more in the offing – 

You need to love and accept yourself as you are. When two people are living together, it is important to accept one as one is. Period.

 

 You should be the most important person to yourself, even when you are married.


 If you seek something, give that to others first, be it money or happiness. Of course, it cannot be a mere giving. It needs to be preceded by a change in the mindset which makes you worthy of giving. Like I once suffered from financial insecurity. Obviously, it would have its own pressure. But then, I kept telling myself that I was capable of coming out of this hurdle because I was worth it. After I started giving ten percent of my earnings every month, I never faced the insecurity. Money/gifts  kept flowing. I know, it sounds like a 'Secret' tenet, but at least in my life, it worked.


           Mehta's acrylic painting titled Resonance 

  

To me, Sudeshna Chatterjee, the mind of Suhasini Ahluwalia Mehta opens up into a vibrant palette of ideas and interests when provoked to introspect.  Hence, I find her answers almost always complementing my questions. 

 

                                                                             
                                                                               Suhasini Ahluwalia Mehta


Q & A                                                                         

You are showered with blessings when you give tithe, according to religious beliefs. But you would prefer to call it as a gift to your favoured causes. Does the way you look at things change the perspective? How does it help? And, would you have continued to give  the tithe if the financial insecurity would have continued notwithstanding? Yes/no, please elaborate.

I always gifted to the causes after my heart. However, I suddenly decided to tithe more consciously since early last year. Tithing is about money I guess but I think one can give anything – it is more about sharing actually. We are privileged to have a good education, skills, abilities, talents – we can share all or any of these, right? I started this as a women’s group as well, a few years ago, to encourage each other’s talents – to share and to encourage women to express their talent, to be independent and to support each other. We are now a group of more than 150 women going by the proud name of Pleiades.

Giving and Receiving – they are actually the same. I think it is about understanding the value of your gifts by sharing them with others. Most times we underestimate ourselves, our privileges and gifts. By sharing with others, we begin to value these more. If I am able to give something, that means I ‘have’ it. I think that’s why formal tithing has been recommended – to remove the idea of ‘lack’. Instead of focussing on lack – by sharing – we start focussing on ‘having’ something that we are delighted to share. So yes, definitely the way you look at things changes because you feel responsible, empowered – that you are able to support others. It is also not just about giving, isn’t it? It is about receiving as well. If for example, someone teaches the underserved, it is sharing something you have and that means you received it, you have the talent/gift/ability – that is how you are sharing it. So it is equally important to be receiving gratefully the gifts you are given in life.

Financial insecurity is a state of mind, focusses on ‘lack’. It can change very easily when you start being grateful for what you have (have=received).

According to the American Psychology Association, expressive writing cleans up spaces in the only ‘living’ shelf called memory by removing intrusive and avoidant thoughts. That is what I feel is the best benefit of keeping a journal as it keeps depressive thoughts at bay, especially in the new normal time when we are struggling to survive. Kindly enlist yours.  

One of the best benefits of keeping a journal is that you begin to become your own friend. You learn to express and your thought process becomes clearer. A journal helps you see yourself, like a mirror. You become more aware of your thoughts and can then attempt to control or change them. It is a reflection of your innermost state of mind like fears, desires and hopes. It is actually quite non-judgemental too! I used to keep a journal when I was younger and then stopped. I always did stay with the habit of writing at times and making short notes. So, I decided to get back to it as I had some flexibility of time due to working from home during the pandemic.

My journal has become like my best friend. I enjoy sitting with it first thing every morning. It helps with self-dialogue and stay focussed on what is important to me. It helps me face my fears. It helps me encourage myself. It helps me write goals and dreams and the things and people I am grateful for. It thus makes me feel lighter and hence happier.

You are a DINK couple living in India. How prejudice and privilege affect your mind?

Interesting question…I think privilege has given me the strength to manage prejudice. The usual casual question that comes up when you meet someone is – how many kids do you have or what class are your kids in? And I truly enjoy their look when I say – we do not have kids. It is usually a blank or a confused look! At one party, a lady insisted that I should plan and have kids quickly and I tried convincing her about my age first (I was 45 at the time) and had no intentions of making her an Auntie hahahaha. I still can not forget the flabbergasted look on her face. I quietly heave a sigh of relief when I hear stressed mothers talk about 10th and 12th exams. It is not like I have not missed having kids but frankly it is a rare occasion. Once we decided, that was that. I am not a person who lives in the past or with regrets. I have none. We have kids around us of all ages and enjoy spoiling them. We are more friends with them.

I have not directly faced any snide remarks – it is the usual comments from parents and family but we take and answer them in jest and they left us alone. I guess they also got around to accepting us and our decisions. We understand their perspective too.

The attitude generally is that other things make us whole – if you are single – get married, if you are married have kids, if you have kids – what education are you giving them?, do you own a house?, how much do you earn?, what car do you own? Etc etc. True – this is life and living but life and living could be other stuff as well.

What is your ‘Secret’ to ensure some balance in your mind and relationship? 

I am not sure how to answer that – that is the kind of person I am – I enjoy learning and experiencing new things, I like pushing myself to be better, I like pressurising myself and also cribbing and complaining and then getting through to the next level. So even when I know, I am busy – I say to myself, I can still do it – cause if you give something to someone who is busy, he/she will surely do it. I still make time for doing ‘nothing’ in between J. I used to be a workaholic for many years but over the last few years, I have consciously tried to make time to do the things I totally enjoy – working out, drumming, trying painting, writing, reading, hanging on to trees or friends (masti), dancing. Thanks to working from home, there is additional flexibility to do these activities.

We all are sad at some point. But only the weak gets bitter. Agree? Yes/no, why? How do you deal with your demons?  

 I would not use the word ‘weak’. Maybe replace it with vulnerable. It is okay to be and feel vulnerable. It is okay to be sad. It is okay to be happy.

 Certainly, we are humans and our emotions take over sometimes. When this happens to me – I become aware of it and then decide on a strategy – either allow myself to wallow in it for some time and then snap out of it or focus on my breathing to change my state and/or vent out in my journal and analyse it. I have also come to a formula that I use to analyse my state – if something disturbs me or unbalances me, I ask myself if my emotion or reaction to a situation is driven by Judgement or Fear or Expectation (my short form JEF) and then I go about tackling it internally with self-analysis/talk/letting go/forgiving/healing.

 If you are in love with a person, would you like to change that person or your thoughts to be compatible? Kindly elucidate. 

Hahahahaha I tried the changing part –didn’t work J so I decided to change myself and my thoughts. That is actually the only thing one can change, right? I realised you do not actually have to do anything to be ‘compatible’. You just need to stop putting pressure on yourself. You need to learn to be comfortable and okay with yourself and everything around you changes automagically. I decided to delve into ‘Know Thyself’. I let go of my idea of ‘should be’ and ‘would be’ and 'perfection' and it got so much easier! It is a perfect world anyways!

I realised I was too hard on myself, trying to live life according to ‘standards’ set by social life or self-prejudices and perceptions. Now I try to be more accepting of myself, kinder, gentler, more forgiving and not taking myself too seriously. So I am enjoying just ‘being’ myself. Learning to be my own friend. When you accept yourself as you are, you can very easily accept others as they are.

All in all, it is not about the other person. It is about you. Are you compatible with yourself? 

                                                                                                                                      Mehta's acrylic painting titled  Joy


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